How to deal with stupid people. A simple guide in 5 steps.

 

English:

     1. Ignore. Not in the way that you avoid them, because most of the time you don’t have a choice. But when they are talking, nod politely and approve them. The more the better.

     2. Usually they come with a superior attitude incorporated. That’s great, they think they’re the center of the universe. And for a stupid person the universe is way too small. In this case you should praise them in an ironic tone. No,  they will not catch the irony, you will. And on top of that, you’ll make them feel good, get what you want and leave it to the karma or whoever has the time to deal with it.

     3. It’s not good to start arguing with them because it will last all day and you will need to explain every single argument a million times and they still might not get it. Remember it’s not your problem, you are not their mother. So, no arguments. See the first point if they start something you don’t agree with.

     4. If you want to talk to them- gossip is the way. You know what Eleanor Roosevelt said: „Great minds talk about ideas, average minds talk about events, small minds talk about people.”. You would be surprised to find out that they are the first ones to critic anything and everyone. Doesn’t matter if they don’t have the expertise to even understand what’s going on, they will do small talk about others and most of the times they will put everyone down to make themselves bigger.

     5. Don’t spend a lot of time with them because you will adapt to their minds and you’ll become a little stupid yourself. If you feel like you are the alien in the room, it’s most likely time for you to change the room. It’s better to be all alone reading a book than stay around them and talk about a reality show. I know , we are social beings, but, you should always find people that know and want more about and from life. This way you will push yourself to be better.  If that’s impossible, than a good book and a cup of coffee should do the trick.

 

     As for today’s outfit, I wore a pair of velvet pants and a cut off sweater with a choker incorporated and a pair of black boots. The pictures are taken at Peles Castle in Sinaia. A place you should visit at least once in your lifetime.

 

Romana:

     1. Ignora-i. Nu la modul in care sa ii eviti, pentru ca in cele mai multe cazuri nu ai de ales, dar cand vorbesti cu ei aproba-i politicos. Cu cat mai mult ,cu atat mai bine.

     2. De obicei ,incultii, vin cu o atitudine superioara la pachet, ceea ce e foarte bine, pentru ca ei considera ca sunt centrul universului. Iar pentru o persoana de gen Universul este un concept mult prea mic. In acest caz ar trebui sa-i lauzi intr-o maniera ironica. Nu,ei nu-si vor da seama ca e ironie,dar tu stii deja ca este, iar ,in plus, ii vei face sa se simta bine, obtii ceea ce vrei si lasi karma sau oricine are timp, sa se ocupe de ei in continuare.

     3. Nu este bine sa incepi sa te contrazici cu ei pentru ca o sa te tina toata ziua si o sa fii nevoit sa explici fiecare argument de un milion de ori cu riscul ca ei sa nu se prinda o buna perioada de timp. Aminteste-ti ca nu e problema ta, nu esti mama lor, deci…fara argumente. Daca totusi incep o discutie pe un subiect cu care nu esti de acord, ia in considerare punctul 1.

     4. Daca vrei sa incepi o discutie cu ei- barfa e cea mai usoara metoda. Stii cum a spus Eleanor Roosevelt :” Mintile ilustre discuta idei, inteligentele medii discuta evenimente, iar mintile reduse ii discuta pe altii.”. O sa fii surprins sa aflii ca ,incultii, sunt primii care vor sa critice pe oricine si orice. Nu conteaza daca au sau nu habar de domeniu ca sa inteleaga macar despre ce e vorba, o sa vorbeasca despre altii denigrator ca sa se simta mai bine despre sine.

     5. Nu sta prea mult in preajma lor pentru ca gandirea ta se va adapta la mentalitatea lor si o sa devii si tu la randul tau…putin incult. Daca ti se pare ca esti extraterestu in locatia unde te aflii,cel mai probabil ar trebui s-o schimbi. E mai bine sa stai singur si sa citesti o carte decat sa stai in jurul lor si sa vorbiti despre un reality show. Stiu ca suntem fiinte sociale,dar intotdeauna ar trebui sa tintim sa gasim persoane care stiu despre viata si vor mai mult de la ea. In acest mod o sa poti sa evoluezi si sa-ti depasesti limitele. Daca totusi, asemenea persoane sunt imposibil de gasit, o carte si o cafea o sa rezolve problema.

      Pentru outfit-ul de azi am purtat o pereche de pantaloni din catifea si un pulover cut off cu un choker incorporat combinate cu o pereche de ghete negre. Pozele sunt facute la Castelul Peles din Sinaia, un loc care trebuie vizitat macar o data in viata.

 

 

 

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  XoXo, Khloe

www.khloelo.com

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